Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Positive.

"The bludgeon of circumstances may bruise you, but keep your head erect".Life is made up of hard decisions and even tougher lessons. As life unveils its intentions to us, we must stand tall.
A strong person is built by living out these trials and tribulations. With unrelenting love and strength, any obstacle no matter it's severity, can be faced and endured. Fail or succeed it doesn't matter, this doesn't define you or make you, it's what you take from any given experience that proves your worth "the season of failure is the best time for sowing the seeds of success".

I have failed, and through failure I have found success. Failure has taught me volumes about myself and given me solutions to remedy any ill that may come my way. One thing for sure, family and friends are important. They help to lay the foundation for an impenetrable structure. It's for you to decide and design it's permanence. Keep it clean, stay true.

5 comments:

  1. I think that you are soley responcible for 'an impenetrable structure'. If you're not strong enough to hold yourself then how can you expect anyone else to help you when need be. Not to disagree with you or anything, this is just my personal opinion, but if you are knowingly and consentingly driving towards something unfavorable.. then why should anyone want to help you. Maybe I'm just too hard on humanity.. but I'm completely in favor of the old saying 'you made your bed, now lie in it'. Hate to be such a hard ass but some people don't learn if you're always holding them up.

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  2. You misunderstood the point of the blog. A self destructive individual is not what I was directing this towards."A strong person is built by living out these trials and tribulations. With unrelenting love and strength, any obstacle no matter it's severity, can be faced and endured". This is for the people that try to live right, that care. Sometimes we get too much negative outcomes, more than we can deal with.It's about not getting low and destroying yourself, do what you can and if you fail, you've gained more than you think. Now you know where you went wrong and can improve. Sometimes this simple truth can be overlooked. It's always easier to wallow in self pity.It's about not giving in, if you need help ask, family and true friends will stand by you to reinforce that will and give one the strength that one needs to overcome. It's about trying.

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  3. I completely agree that when you hit a speed bump in life, you undoubtedly learn from it..but that's just logical. My point was that when you put yourself there (not when life pulls the rug out from under you in an unforseen and unfavorable turn of events).. its on you to pull yourself out. Not anyone else.. although nine times out of ten people will be there offering you help reguardless. (Thats what family is for) I lost my train of thought.. im on the phone.. fin.

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  4. It is logical but not everyone sees it that way. One person can deal, while the other cant. Don't resort to giving up(destroying yourself)just brush it off and do whats necessary to overcome.

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  5. Positivity can be tiresome, more so than most expect it to but it's more rewarding.

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